Urban Ministry 7
For which of
you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost,
whether he have sufficient to finish it? Lest haply, after he hath laid the
foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him,
Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. (Luke 14.28-30)
Jesus gave this advice in the
context of calling His disciples to be willing to do the hard thing in His
service. He wants us to do the hard thing sometimes. But if we do not understand
ahead of time that this is a hard thing we are about to do the chances are we
will give up when the going gets tough.
That last paragraph applies perfectly
to urban ministry. It is difficult and I know what I am talking about. In some
sense, all ministry is difficult. In some sense, every field is constantly
growing a new crop of stones that has to be dealt with. I do not mean to leave
the impression that if you are not in urban ministry you have an easy life. I
do not believe that. But I do believe urban ministry comes with its own set of
unique challenges, and the purpose of today's post is to convey some of those.
In a sense, then, I want to discourage you before you begin so that you may
begin wisely and thus last for the long term. America's cities desperately need
men committed to long term, patient, overcoming ministry. So here, in my
judgment, is some of the cost.
First and most obviously is the high
cost of property. This negatively impacts absolutely everything.
If you are starting a church in an urban
environment it typically means you are going to be renting for a very long
time. Renting space for church over the long term is problematic for several
reasons. It means you have to constantly set up and tear down. It means a large
percentage of the public will view you with suspicion. It means you will pour
serious money down the drain in rent that you could have used on a mortgage. It
means much of how your church chooses to do ministry is limited by time and
space. It means you are going to have to patiently sock money away so that you
can eventually get enough for a down payment. That might take decades. Even
then, your troubles are not over. You have to find a building for sale that is
already zoned for religious use. If you cannot you may well have to jump
through hoops for years trying to get it re-zoned. Big cities do not care about
your church. Essentially, for practical (your church is too small to matter)
and financial (they do not want to lose the property tax base) and cultural
(big cities are generally anti-religious) they will put all sorts of roadblocks
in your way.
If you accept the pastorate of an
established church that does not mean your troubles are over in that department
at all. Yes, you already have a piece of property, but most likely it is badly
placed. By that I mean it may well be on a side street without much visibility
and with little to no access to parking. If you do not see why not having
sufficient available parking is important you soon will. Your visitors that
never return will tell you constantly. Your building is almost certainly old, and
high maintenance and utility costs will eat you up. It almost certainly cannot
be expanded for space and zoning reasons. Practically speaking, you are
landlocked and building locked. And if you grow? Well, then it's just one
constant, never-ending headache. How can I fit more people in here? How can I
minister better and bigger inside the construct of this box? And if you want to
move you face the same necessity for a massive down payment the start-up church
does. If you want to build? Well, that is even worse because in addition to the
costs you have zoning and permit and inspection issues that are more than
intimidating.
Secondly, you will more than likely have
to deal with a constant stream of people who move away. Why do they do that?
Because they get tired of the crime, the grime, the traffic, and the high cost
of living. They want a slice of the American dream and they cannot afford it in
the inner city. Often you will lose these people just as they hit the most
productive period of their church membership. I realize I am speaking a bit
openly here but it just fact. They will tell you they are still going to drive
in and attend your church. They mean it when they tell you that, and they will
– for a while. But eventually the travel will become a greater and greater
aggravation, and their participation rate will fall until they just bite the
bullet and find a church closer to their recently purchased home in the suburbs.
Even in a good church with a careful pastor and committed people your turnover
rate will still be much higher than the equivalent rural congregation.
Third, crime. Sometimes the church has
to deal with this directly. The first twelve months I pastored in Chicago was
an eye-opening experience. In that time we had an entire Sunday offering
stolen, PA equipment stolen, vans keyed, car batteries stolen, spare tires
stolen, landscaping stolen, headlights shot out, gangs tagged our building with
graffiti, air conditioners vandalized, and drunks who insisted on sleeping it
off directly outside the front door. To some extent or other all of those are a
constant problem. And if they are not an active problem they are still
problematic. It is a hassle to lock every door every time you go in and out of
one but you have no other choice. Where, when, and how late you send a youth
group out or a group of people out witnessing all has to be balanced carefully.
Indirectly, the church has to deal with
it because your people are always dealing with it. Their garages are broken
into, someone on their block got shot last week, two doors down is a drug
house, their car windows were smashed and their GPS stolen, someone mugged them
while they were walking to church, their teenager is being hassled by the gangs
in school, or dealing with the grief that comes when your peers becomes victims
of violence, etc. In addition to all of this you will also have personal
concerns for your family.
Some of you are muttering, "You
aren't making this whole urban ministry thing sound very attractive to
me."
Good. I do not want to make it sound
attractive. I want you to count the cost.
Fourth, you may not ever like the place
you live. Certain kinds of people love the city. They love the busyness of it,
the fast pace of life, the never-ending variety, the wide availability of good
food and interesting people and new jobs. They go to the country and get
nervous because it gets dark at night and there is no 24 hour bus service.
Everything is vanilla. Not to mention it is just so quiet they cannot rest. If
you are one of those kinds of people then urban ministry will not be difficult
for you in this respect. But if you are not a city person then you must carry
that too. You will feel claustrophobic, hemmed in, and aggravated. You will long
for peace and quiet. You will miss the slower pace of life, and the beauty of
God's creation. And that will wear on
you.
Fifth, the culture. I have mentioned
already in this series that a nation's culture flows from cities. The media and
music and fashion that move our country come from New York City, Los Angeles,
Chicago, Boston, Houston, Miami, and Phoenix. That is the very reason God sent
prophets to cities and the very reason independent Baptists should be flocking
to them. They are mission fields. But in this respect you must understand that
big city culture is actively antagonistic to almost everything in biblical
Christianity. Politics are liberal. The school systems are godless. The LGBT
community will get all kinds of positive press and attention at City Hall, in
the media, and even in the school system. Your local church community will not
get anything from those three but grief. The Catholics will be a huge presence
and they will hate you. The Muslims will be a growing presence and they will
hate you. The sophisticated, intellectual atheists grouped around the
universities will be influential and they will hate you. The contemporary
evangelicals will sigh, shake their head, and wonder when you will ever learn
to go along to get along. Immigrants will bring with them their superstitions
and their paganism. The business community downtown will not even notice you
exist. The Democratic Party will run everything, and the best you can hope for
from them is that they will misunderstand you. They will bend over backwards to
help the Buddhists get their own temple, but they will throttle your attempts
at growth. You will be the salmon
swimming upstream. You will be the smallest of minorities with all the negative
consequences that come from having no voice, or at least no voice anyone who is
anybody will want to listen to. You will swim in a sea that is increasingly
pagan, godless, and anti-Christian. This environment will flavor everything
about your life.
Do you still want to come to my city? Do
you still have a burden for Baltimore, for Austin, for Philadelphia, for
Seattle, for Kansas City, for Detroit, for Minneapolis? Not anymore? Well, what
did you expect?
Margaret Clarkson said it best:
So send I you to labour unrewarded.
To serve unpaid, unloved, unsought, unknown.
To bear rebuke, to suffer scorn and scoffing.
So send I you to toil for Me alone.
So send I you to bind the bruised and broken,
Over wandering souls to work, to weep, to wake,
To bear the burdens of a world a-weary.
So send I you to suffer for My sake.
So send I you to loneliness and longing
With hart a-hungering for the loved and known;
Forsaking kin and kindred, friend and dear one.
So send I you to know My love alone.
So send I you to leave your life's ambition,
To die to dear desire, self-will resign;
To labour long, and love where men revile you;
So send I you to lose your life in Mine.
So send I you to hearts made hard by hatred,
To eyes made blind because they will not see;
To spend, though it be blood to spend and spare not.
So send I you to taste of Calvary.
"As the Father hath sent me, so send I you."
This enlightening post touched my heart. I relate to everything you have penned in it. What a blessing to have a like-minded friend that understands.
ReplyDeletePraise God for your faithfulness where He has called you. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteI'm another participant in these experiences. Good thoughts. Brother Tom,
ReplyDeleteSept 9th wss 40 years ago I first stepped into Chicago to minister. I have seen many preachers and churches come and go. True very few count the cost and stay by the stuff. I would not be happy ministering anywhere else.
ReplyDeleteSept 9th wss 40 years ago I first stepped into Chicago to minister. I have seen many preachers and churches come and go. True very few count the cost and stay by the stuff. I would not be happy ministering anywhere else.
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