Don't Get Stuck At College

 

From My Mailbag: Don’t Get Stuck at College

 

Currently, on my blog, I am working my way through a long list of unanswered correspondence. Today’s question involves young men entering the ministry:

“I’d love to hear your thoughts on how to create a more effective pathway from Bible college to ministry, particularly the pastorate. A common concern seems to be that students attend Bible college but remain in that college town rather than entering ministry.”

I absolutely agree that this is a problem. It was in my Dad’s day. He graduated from Tennessee Temple University in 1973. It was in my day. I graduated from Hyles-Anderson College in 1995. I have good friends on the faculty and administration of seven different Bible colleges, and they will readily admit it is still a problem. In fact, they contend that the problem is worse now than it was in my father’s generation or in mine. As a society, we are producing young men who are more immature than previous generations. (We could discuss the causes of that in other posts, perhaps.) Nevertheless, it is factual. I believe this significantly contributes to the finish-but-never-begin trap that so many young ministers fall into.

I do not know that I have the solution, but after kicking the question around with some preacher friends, I offer the following nine suggestions to help counter it. I am going to be blunt. If you do not like it, you can be blunt back. I can take it.

 

1) Attend a local church Bible institute or similar type of program.

 

I could name a dozen off the top of my head. There are probably several hundred of these types of ministries in local churches across the country. For most men, especially married men, this is an excellent way to prepare for the ministry.

The old knock on them was two-fold. First, you cannot get a good theological education in such institutes. I disagree. I personally know many men who came out of such local church institutes. They know as much theology as I do. The internet has leveled the playing field here. Second, you cannot catch a vision for what God can do in a big way if you attend a small church. Curiously enough, the Apostles managed to catch a large vision without being schooled in a large ministry, did they not? If you get around Jesus, He will be all the vision you need.

Not every pastor is willing to undertake the enormous work required to prepare other men to pastor, nor should every pastor. Frankly, not all pastors are capable of it, in my opinion. But hundreds and hundreds of them are. Find one that is willing to take you under his wing, do your homework to make sure he will train you well, and then soak it up.

 

2) Attend a college that allows students to choose local churches.

 

Every institutional design, like every person, has strengths and weaknesses. The old Bible Baptist College (Springfield) model excelled in this area specifically. Yes, it was an independent Baptist college. No, it was not based out of one particular local church. Instead, it was governed by a board composed of pastors from several local churches. Because of this, when the student enrolled in college, he had to choose an approved independent Baptist church within driving distance of the school to attend and serve in. There are several independent Baptist colleges currently that are structured this way, including the one I will join this summer. 

This method of operation serves up two advantages, one negative and the other positive.

Negatively speaking, the student does not become entangled in the mesh of a big/successful/attractive church. Such large churches are enormously sticky. They retain drop-out college students like the Shamwow retains water. Instead, he serves in a typically sized church. In fact, he can change churches from year to year if he so chooses. The available churches are usually similar to the one he attended back home. He does not see his college church as better, let alone as the gold standard. Consequently, he never comes to look down on the church he came from.

On the positive side, the student usually retains a closer relationship with his home church as a result. He is not pressured to remain at the big college church over the holidays or the summer to maintain his ministry. (I could tell you some stories there, but I digress.) If he does not finish college, or if he finishes and cannot find an immediate place of service, it is natural for him to go back home to discover what is next. The only thing holding him in place geographically was college. College is done. Now it is time to move on.

 

3) Attend a college that does not hire its own graduates immediately.

 

One of the benefits to the large local church that hosts a Bible college is the feeder churches – I do not like that term, but it fits in this context – send their best young people to it. The leadership of the college church gets to watch as these young people develop. Such churches are always hiring staff. They often literally choose the best of the best and immediately plug them into leadership positions within the college church’s ministries.

Elsewhere, I have argued that this is a highly damaging strategy in the long term. Young men should not be trained for ministry by men who have precious little real church experience. It took me years to overcome the weaknesses aggravated in me via such training. Young men should be trained by men of deep experience in the Lord’s work. But my point here is that the potential Bible college student can choose to avoid colleges that go the route of hiring their own graduates immediately. This prevents him from even having to deal with the temptation to stick around, hoping to land the big church or college staff job. His college does not function that way; he has to move on if he wants to enter ministry.

 

4)Attend a college that prioritizes pioneering a work.

 

I am a big believer in drinking from good wells dug in previous generations, but every generation of Christians needs to dig its own wells. Every generation needs to write hymns, plant churches, pen commentaries, and birth ministries. The colleges that train our young men need to embrace this. If all we do is furnish the equivalent of replacement troops, we will never advance the cause of Christ.

Inculcating a pioneering spirit helps to inoculate young men from sitting around waiting for someone to hand them a position. Young men have energy and enthusiasm. Throw a dart on the map and go plant a work there. Okay, not really, but you get my drift, I think.

 

5) Attend a college that embraces bivocational ministry.

 

I am mystified at this, utterly mystified. Bivocational, covocational, part-time – call them whatever you will, such pastors and staff men are not second-class citizens. Paul was a tentmaker, for crying out loud.

Saint Paul Working As A Tentmaker
by Pietro Santi Bertoli, c 1550

Bivocational ministry does not hold a man back from reaching his potential. I would argue it can develop him spiritually in necessary though unseen ways. Bivocational ministry cures you of big-shot-itis. It humbles you. It teaches you to learn to deal with people carefully because you cannot afford to lose them. It forces you to learn to build well rather than quickly. And it allows the growing/struggling church to use its money to purchase property and erect buildings faster than could be done otherwise.

In my first five years in the pastorate I was bivocational. I do not look down on such men. I respect them whole cloth. When we teach young men that, we signal that it is okay for them to take that route, too.

 

6) Attend a college that highlights faithful pastors.

 

I confess I can be a bit jaded at times. I am conscious of that, and conscious that I might become one of those old, cynical men if I am not careful. Having said that, the older I get, the less I care about a pastor’s accomplishments in ministry and the more I care about his life and how well he handles the Word of God.

That last sentence may be where I am at, but it certainly is not where most of the independent Baptist movement has been for most of my life. I well remember being 17 and hearing a well-known preacher say, “In fundamentealism, if you reach 500, you have a voice; if you reach 1000, you must be platformed; if you reach 2000, you cannot do any wrong.” In entirely too many places, that mindset still exists, even if it is not expressed so crassly anymore.

Find a college that believes in bringing in men as a result of their decades of faithful service rather than the number they are running in Sunday School. The latter is hollow over time, feeds the minister's vanity, and so often brings him to destruction. It also sets before the young minister a mostly unattainable and always unbiblical model of ministry to emulate.

Young men preparing for ministry need to hear regularly from and be around veterans of such service, regardless of whether they are well-known in their circle or not. This constant stream of men who are unknown yet well known in Heaven will set before their eyes both a realistic philosophy of ministry and a biblical goal of what they ought to strive to be.

 

7) Keep your home pastor deeply involved.

 

For myself and too many of my contemporaries, when we left for Bible college, we left our home church behind. We went back only rarely to visit. When we did, we found our church had moved on without us. At the same time, we were building our own life elsewhere. Also, at the same time, our home church pastor, having more than enough irons in the fire, often lost sight of us.

The pastor and the Bible college student need to each do their part in this relationship to ensure this does not happen. The pastor needs to regularly reach out to the Bible college student while he is away and continue to prioritize spending time with him when he is back home. The student needs to continue to view his home church pastor as his pastor and consequently involve him in every decision of consequence. This prevents the student from falling through the cracks when he is struggling. His pastor knows him and knows how and when to call him on it. In addition, the pastor is invested, literally, and he wants to see a return on his investment. It is also good for the home church to see as well.

I accept that there are cases, too many of them, where the home church pastor changes while the student is away at college. But even in those situations, the incoming pastor and student can work together to build a relationship to replace the one lost. My assistant pastor is the fruit of such intentional relationship building. I am glad I took the initiative and the time to build that relationship. I am glad he reciprocated. He and I and our church are all the stronger for it.

 

8) Take as many mission trips or internships as you can.

 

Bible college students are infamous for getting tunnel vision. They often can only see what is directly in front of them. Class, class, class, chapel, class, work, sleep, repeat. Finish the projects. Find a way to pay for it. Give your heart away in a ministry on the weekend. Find a life partner. Get a diploma, by hook or by crook.

Several problems result from such tunnel vision. For one, when a student experiences a serious setback or failure in this process, he often thinks of himself as a failure en toto. Ergo, the only reasonable choice is to quit. For another, his mind and heart can be so captured by the big church ministry he is in that he fails to structure his relationship with that church as temporary. It becomes semi-permanent. Then permanent. Then concrete.

When you tear yourself away from that life for a mission trip or a summer internship, you put your college career into the proper perspective. You see it for what it is: training. You remind yourself of what motivated you to surrender to the ministry in the first place, the need of the world for Christ, and of each neighborhood and town to have a good church. You insert yourself into some such mission field or church for a period, and you return to your college life inspired to finish so you can move on to the next step.

Such things are not as easy as they sound. The student’s checking account may make this seem utterly impossible. The church’s previous experience with interns who made some serious mistakes may make them gunshy. But like the rest of the Bible college student’s preparation, though it is difficult, ‘tis eminently worthwhile.

If I had interned in a normal church post-college or even during college, it would have helped me immensely. It would have spared me some of the struggle, failure, and frustration of my early years in the pastorate. I encourage every young person preparing for ministry to do it, or something similar.

 

9) Remain nimble.

 

I could not think of a better, more succinct phrase. What I mean here is that the Bible college student’s life is usually relatively simple when he begins his preparation. He or she is single. They have no debt. They are in good health. They have support from the home front. They are set up for success. Fast forward a few years, and what do we often find? Premature serious romantic relationships that complicate everything, especially if they get married too soon. Debt from “necessary” car repairs and school bills. A stressed and insolvent emotional bank. A support system that has largely forgotten the student just when he needs them the most.

The Calling of Samuel
by Joshua Reynolds, c 1776

Every spiritual casualty is unique, but many share common traits. The largest of those similarities falls along these lines. The student struggled financially. The student married too soon. No one back home notices the impending crisis. He drops out, or “takes a year or two to get things settled”, a year or two that becomes decades.

Structure life in such a way that if God called you to the ends of the Earth, you could go almost immediately. Keep it that way.

 

In closing, I want to add that I expect your list of suggestions, if you made one, would look somewhat different than mine. I welcome hearing your thoughts on the subject, whether on the blog site, via email, or on a social media post. The conversation is bigger than me, and worth having. So speak up if you have something worthwhile to say. It will help 

Launching a Writing Ministry

 

I’m seeking your advice on starting a Substack/blog. While I’m not a great writer and don’t have much to share yet, I see value in starting now to grow. Could you share any tips or resources that helped you as you began?

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At the moment, I am working my way through some items from my mailbag on this blog. Today’s question is an interesting one. Essentially, it involves knowing whether and how to begin a writing ministry. I have previously written about whether and how to write a book, but this is a different question. The answer lies within reach of more people. I do not consider myself an expert by any means, but I will give you my thoughts on the matter.

Six thoughts. Here goes.

1) The only way to be a writer is to start writing.

Writers write – that statement got me off the bench and into the game.

As a wide-ranging, long-standing reader, the idea of writing something myself naturally presented itself from time to time. Before social media, internet forums were a thing. I joined one, and often participated. From time to time, the conversations morphed into long-form discussions, and I felt that suited my desire to communicate context and depth. Occasionally, I even wrote stand-alone articles here and there. But in the main, all I did was growl that I could write a better post or book than the one I happened to be reading.

It dawned on me one day that I was no better than the members of my church who wanted to become soul winners but never did anything about it. They just postponed it with a vague, “Someday, I’ll get around to it.” Soul winners do not talk about witnessing, watch other people witness, or read about witnessing. They tell other people about Jesus. So it is with writers. They determine writing is worth doing, and set aside a regular time to do it, regardless of whether they think the result will be widely read or not.

You will never become a writer by contemplating it. Write something.

 

2) The only way to improve as a writer is to continue writing.

It is possible to do something regularly and never improve. It is not possible, however, to do something only occasionally and improve. Consistent, regular, scheduled activity is necessary for excellence in any endeavor. Paired with the analysis available by today’s online editing tools, and honed by friendly criticism now and again, there is no reason the typical thoughtful individual cannot become a decent writer. But you must commit yourself to putting in consistent effort and producing constant content.

 

3) The only way to have content worth reading is to study.

When I was younger, I thought my insights were brilliant. Little did I know… Over time, God, in His grace, brought me to see that the world does not need my insight; it needs His. The better I know His Word and understand His thoughts, the more benefits and blessings come to those within my influence. So I must study His Word.

I did not do this to become a writer. Writing was not on my radar at the time. I did it because I wanted to rightly understand the Bible, push back against those who would weaken the truth, and help His people. So I made a list of biblical concepts I did not understand very well, and set out to study up on them. I compiled stacks of books, took classes, watched videos, and built up my knowledge base. I then turned those into tools I used regularly or series I preached/taught to others. Music. Eschatology. Hermeneutics. Teaching. Jesus. Fundamentalism. Assimilation. Counseling. Systematic Theology. Old Testament types. Cults. Sanctification. Evangelism. Grace. Ecclesiology. Prayer. Faith. Heaven. Leadership. Marriage. Suffering. Money. Blessing. Worship. Standards. Wisdom. Faith. Character. Prayer. The King James issue. Alcohol. Love.Etc. And hundreds of detailed expositional sermons, working my way through an extended passage or book of the Bible.

Please do not misunderstand me. I am NOT saying you have to do this. God leads us along individual paths as we follow Him. What I am saying is that honing the ability to write without, at the same time, gathering things worth hearing is an exercise in vanity and a waste of time.

 

4) Because these two things need to mature – your writing ability and your depth of content – you should begin writing first for the immediate circle in which you minister now.

Thus far, it may seem I have given you two contrary pieces of advice. Start writing
immediately. Study or experience until you have something to say worth hearing. But the truth is, you can begin now, whatever age you are. Assuming you are currently serving the Lord, start by considering how you can use writing in the arena in which you currently serve. Do you run a bus route? Perhaps you could write a monthly newsletter for everyone who is in any way associated with that route. Do you teach a teen Sunday School class? Perhaps you could write a handout to go with each lesson, or summarize the lesson in written form and send it home with them. Do you work with seniors? Perhaps you could write occasional articles for them on things that matter to seniors – health, grandchildren, finances, scams, feeling useful, travel, etc.

You do not need to wait until your beard has gone gray and your reputation for wisdom has increased. Write right now and gear it toward the orbit you are currently in.

 

5) As these two things mature, widen your reach.

I am not even sure I should mention this one. This is more of a God thing than a man thing. Many years ago, an older preacher told me, “When you deepen your message, God widens your ministry.” The Scriptural equivalent is 1 Timothy 4.15. Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them, that thy profiting may appear to all. As you develop your capacity and ability to edify God’s people, He gives you more opportunities to do so. Your path will not look like mine. Neither will it look like what you currently expect. But the Lord will do it, and it will be remarkable to see in hindsight.

Again, do not misunderstand me. I am not asking you to crawl into a hole and close it off behind you. It is good and right to seek to advance your knowledge base, skill set, and opportunities to minister. But you will find that the doors the Lord opens for you along the way are better than the ones you lever a crowbar into and force.

Grow in Him, in your likeness to Him, in your knowledge of Him, and in your usefulness to Him. He will use it, rest assured.

 

6) Do not expect either monetary compensation or a wide and interested readership; expect to minister to those who will let you.

When I was a young man, I dreamed of the glorious future that awaited, the opportunities that would throw themselves at my feet once they noticed me. I have written elsewhere of how God beat that out of me. I am most grateful that He did. If I had had in those days the opportunities to minister that I have now, I would have accomplished little for Him while my pride marched me swiftly to destruction. But by the grace of God, my perspective has changed over the years. As Jack Hyles wrote in his poem, “Just Let Me Be Your Servant”: (Let Me Be Your Servant, n.d.)

 

I used to sit in college class

And ask the sluggish year to pass;

I had a goal to reach.

My mind would soar above the clouds

And dream when overflowing crowds

Would come to hear me preach.

 

And now I stand before the crowds,

With mind descending 'neath the clouds;

My goals are rearranged.

I simply want to fill your need;

So lovingly I gently plead,

“My dreams have all been changed;

Just let me be your servant.”

 

When you first offer yourself via the written word, it will probably be mostly ignored and rapidly forgotten. That is fine. The same thing happens with all ministry. You build a writing ministry the same way you build any other ministry – consistent effort regardless of apparent result. And as with all ministry, it is not going to make you money; it is going to cost you money. And time. And sweat. And tears. All of which your Saviour understands.

Thousands of years ago, God reached down to an old man and asked him to serve. In his prime, he had been arrogant. He had thought he was God’s gift to his people. Four decades later, when God finally deemed him ready, he was the opposite of proud – he was uncertain, unworthy, and filled with excuses. With deft care, God asked him not to do great things, but simply to yield to Him that which was in his hand: And Moses answered and said, But, behold, they will not believe me, nor hearken unto my voice: for they will say, The Lord hath not appeared unto thee. And the Lord said unto him, What is that in thine hand? And he said, A rod. And he said, Cast it on the ground. And he cast it on the ground, and it became a serpent; and Moses fled from before it. (Exodus 4.1-3)

Do not insist, even in your mind, that God use you greatly. Simply offer Him what you have in your hand – the energy and optimism of youth, a godly life, a desire to serve Him and help people, and your pen – and let Him make of it what He wills.